Web "Phantoms"

I'm sure any of you at least once faced up with the following situation: You meet someone online, start communicating, may be You exchange instant messenger information or even phone numbers. Everything is going well. You are in contact regularly. Then one day Your new friend disappears for no reason without any explanation. What happens to him? Many people start to think there is something wrong with them, particularly if this happened more than once. But often it is not.

One reason for such behavior is that the person You are contacting with is married or in a relationship. For many people it is so easy to register at any dating site and start correspondence, that they don't hesitate to switch their attention to someone else when the situation is getting serious. Ready for this one? One out of every three people using online dating services are married! Many of these people realize they can only take the process so far.

Another chance is that "your match" just lost his interest or found someone else. The cyber world of dating is a constant competition and selection. This is sad, but in no case it means that it is something wrong with You. Just be realistic and don't get too much attached to someone online unless You are totally sure. Aren't You cautious with the strangers in real life?

It is also possible You were socializing with "fake person". It is a promotional campaign of many dating sites, especially paying ones, to create fake profiles to attract people to register or to buy membership. Many of them even have free trial period at the end of which You need to buy a membership to keep communicating with potential mates. It is also not a reason for despair. Just be wiser next time. "Blind" dating requires psychology skills to find really worthy partners.

In any case our advice is : DO NOT LOSE YOUR COURAGE. Life goes on and there always will be people who will take strong interest in your personality.